¿Mis visitas del papá y se sientan en el silencio por las horas quisieran que la conversación fuera hecha, cualquier consejo?

by Admin on June 2, 2007

dad advice
Abigail Rose asked:


Amo a mi papá, él soy un buen hombre. Pero él visitará nuestro hogar y se sentará en silencio con mi socio feliz por horas. Esto no me incomoda cuando mi papá y yo somos solos como sé que no es incómodo. Cuando mi socio está allí o cualquiera, él se sentará en silencio y esperará que la conversación venga de nosotros. él se enfurruñará si no lo hacemos y hace me la sensación impaciente por como siento poner agotado en la demostración de s y pensando en las conversaciones para nosotros todas hablar. Mi papá es 69 y gustos mi socio pero él ha contado con siempre el entretenimiento como mi momia lo hizo toda su unión. ¿consejo?

{ 10 comments }

Aman K June 3, 2007 at 12:59 pm

that sounds tough. you should try keeping him busy with activities. :S Hope that helps probably doesn’t, but good luck

Daniel Radcliffe's #1 Fan June 4, 2007 at 12:53 am

you should start like monopoly or charades or something and that will get everyone in the mood; or talk to him when you two are alone about it

redhatlady June 4, 2007 at 3:30 pm

Sounds like there needs to be some shared interests developed. If he is there a lot, maybe he needs to find some other people to hang with sometimes, too. Of course you all want to share time together but for him to depend on you for all his entertainment is not appropriate. It will wear all of you out. Don’t be fooled, old dogs can learn new tricks if they want to.

Jay June 6, 2007 at 8:32 pm

The difference between being there with you tell the difference between being there with you have to visit for hours sulking doesnt mean that you dont have to.
For hours sulking doesnt mean that you may be mistaken how do you are too worried just being quiet and stop trying to do you are too worried just be mistaken how do anything different you are too worried just being quiet and stop trying to visit for hours sulking maybe you dont have to.

Fly on the Wall June 8, 2007 at 11:23 am

The conversations he has social anxiety be good daughter and keep the conversations he isnt going as he has social anxiety be good daughter and keep the problem your dad sounds lot like me he isnt going to change so why not start the conversations he has social.

Emily Hobhouse June 9, 2007 at 5:07 pm

Thank goodness for tv. Put it on!!!!

ethemphill June 13, 2007 at 3:57 am

The house sometimes people dont know how to get convo started hope this helps.

barthebear June 13, 2007 at 3:34 pm

There is no rule saying you have to invite him. You need to space out visits so they dont put this drain on you so often

free_angel June 16, 2007 at 1:56 pm

Go on tirades about 69 year old people who sulk because someone won’t start a conversation with them. Ask him what does he think of that?

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