teish asked:
im 15.
up to when i was like 12 my mom and i were really really close.
practically we were best friends.
but now that has really changed.
i love her, but there is this huge gap between us.
we’ve argued A LOT. she’s told me how much i’ve hurt her feelings and i’ve done the same.
we’ve talked about changing and getting back to where we were.
but it just has never worked.
it breaks my heart that she says that i don’t love her because i don’t tell her things or i talk back.
i just don’t like talking about personal things. i’ve told her this but she still insists. it’s simply that if i tell her something she immediately judges me so now i feel that’s it’s better to not tell her things.(i’ve told her that too).
idkk…basically we’re just drifting apart and i don’t know what to do.
im 15.
up to when i was like 12 my mom and i were really really close.
practically we were best friends.
but now that has really changed.
i love her, but there is this huge gap between us.
we’ve argued A LOT. she’s told me how much i’ve hurt her feelings and i’ve done the same.
we’ve talked about changing and getting back to where we were.
but it just has never worked.
it breaks my heart that she says that i don’t love her because i don’t tell her things or i talk back.
i just don’t like talking about personal things. i’ve told her this but she still insists. it’s simply that if i tell her something she immediately judges me so now i feel that’s it’s better to not tell her things.(i’ve told her that too).
idkk…basically we’re just drifting apart and i don’t know what to do.
just wondering if this has happened to you and what advice you have.
ideas? thanks.
Arnold
