My bf asks my mom for advice on how to “handle me”, shouldnt I be able to ask Advice from his mom”?

by Admin on January 12, 2009

advice from mom
Sydney asked:


My mom loves my BF, and His Mom loves Me I have Yet to meet her in person, and talk to her on phone;) How do you all feel about this situation His mom lives across the US from where me, my mom ,bf live, I dont think this is fair that I cant ask his mom for advice, what do you think….

Gertrude

{ 9 comments }

just hanging around January 14, 2009 at 3:35 am

hell, no. his mom might put some sense into you and leave the guy. its your gamble. you might end up back with your ex, if you talk to my mom.

Killer Queen January 17, 2009 at 6:42 am

Why can’t you? Call her. Tell her that her son asks your mother for ways on how to handle you and you would like some tips too. I’m not being serious.

Why is your mother letting your bf ask questions like that? It sounds disrepectful to me. If you were my daughter and some boy asked me that, I would tell him he must be too young to date you.

knittinmama January 18, 2009 at 3:17 am

I think you should recommend to your bf that he not bring up personal issues with your mom. You don’t need parental interference in your relationships. It can lead to a lot of trouble.

kisses123 January 21, 2009 at 11:47 am

Yes you can ask her for advice why not of course!!!

Fauna January 24, 2009 at 8:50 am

It may not be fair, but just because he is friends with your mom does not mean you have to be friends with his mom. Some things just aren’t equal.

friendlystranger65 January 27, 2009 at 12:05 am

She knows him better than anyone else in the world. Not only does she know where his buttons are, she installed the motherboard. You can only ask.

Country Mama January 28, 2009 at 10:12 am

Hi girlfriend,

Have you asked about all going out for lunch together

Destiny'sDream January 30, 2009 at 9:58 am

Exactly what does he mean by that????? He sounds like a controlling boyfriend if you ask me. Neither of you should be asking for advice on how to “Handle each other”.

s r f February 2, 2009 at 4:44 pm

First off asking each others parents for advice on each other seems a bit immature, if you both are adults then handle your business yourselves.